Is it really worth fighting this battle....

Hi, Thanks for taking the time and energy to visit my blog....

In my experience,

 I have won lots of fights (physical and verbal)

with my friends but there was no peace between us.

I realized, I wasted my energy and strengh in fighting which, 

offered no great reward. 

Eventhough we win these battles, which does not have any great reward,

we still come out with battle scars and we are tired emotionally.

We may not have energy to fight the battles which takes us

to new levels in our life.  

The simple solution is to forgive, not 

for others sake, but for your sake, so that you can escape from 

unnecessary scars and keep the peace.

I am not saying to correct none.  But change the approach 

find the ways how you can really impact the person  to change...........  :)

In the days of Jesus.

Jesus was criticized.....

The scripturs say "He spoke not a word".

Whenever someone tries to argue just 

for the sake of testing Jesus, The Scriptures 

say "He moved away from them".

His attidude was let my actions do the talking.

Words are not necessary.

If someone shows us in the bad light, and trying 

to push us down, understand it is not because they

are better, but they are insecure, and want to 

minimize us so that they will look maximized.

It is easy to start and fuel the fight....... but

difficult to stop the fight......

Nowadays if I have an opportunity to fight......

I check,  

"What reward  will I get, If I win this fight"

"What am I trying to prove to him or her?"

I understood the principle that no matter how good and

kind I am , somebody is going to judge me,  get jelous of me and critcise me.  

It is not my job to convince that they are wrong. 

Unless they change themselves, it will drag them down and 

keep them from comeup higher.  

Life is too short to live that way, trying to please 

everybody, which is impossible.

When an eagle was pestered by the crows or chickens.

eventhough Eagle is much bigger and stronger, it will 

not get into the fight with chickens and crows but it rises 

above, before long it will go even elevation even

chicken and crow can not see. 

Meaning, it simply rose above all by putting efforts in 

flying. 

We all have  crows that keep crowing at us and chicken pecking

us in our lives.  Sometimes we have whole flocks. 

Where they are not interested us, but they 

want to drag us down by talking bad about us.  We need to rise above all. 

Instead of putting our energy in  worring about why someone said 

something, we can spend the same amount of energy in practising our own 

skills and improving our lives.

 So, now I understand not to fight all the battles

which comes on my way but only the one which 

takes me to the next levels in my life............

I hope you also agree with me............... :)

Inspired by Joel Osteen.

Catch you in the next post............

God bless you........

bye